My thoughts on communication

I have asked that Brian and I attend joint counseling in order to improve our communication, and work through some of our issues in marriage in order to have a successful divorce. He doesn't see it as being necessary, as he says we are getting better at communicating.

How have we gotten better? The man who promised me the world in order to be out of my evil grasp then served me separation papers via email. We never once discussed the terms of the separation prior to my being served. The settlement proposal was a far cry from anything he had previously offered. Is that effective communication?

I truly believe he is/was seeing someone else and will not tell me. Is that effective communication?

He informed me at 10pm last night that a realtor would be here this morning, giving me no time to prepare the house. Is that effective communication?

Everything that has happened thus far has been about Brian. His need to get out of this marriage, and do it on his terms. I have not made a single decision about where things are heading since he left. It seems the Brian Show continues.